I am well known within my friendship and work group for being something of a control freak, I like a plan, timings and always have, moving away from that makes me uncomfortable

But as I think back to life on pre stroke I wish I’d lived abit more vicariously, unplanned and sought more fun.

I should have got tattoos while I could (blood thinners stopped that years ago).

I should have done more nights out, even the ones in rough bars. Overcrowded with drunks, dancing. I always laughed, but prioritised being home, not spending too much money and getting home safely.

I should have done more holidays, sod the money I should have made memories.

So if I can share any wisdom it’s:

Do it: drink the beer,

Book the holiday

Laugh like an idiot

Dance when you can.

When you lose those options and just walking around the house needs thought, you’d regret it after